A twenty-first birthday dinner is an evening with a programme. There are courses, and between the courses people stand up to say something: a friend with a story, a parent who does not quite keep it together. In Nuenen we played between those moments, not through them.
That asks for something different from a party. We play at the table at conversation level, we stop the moment someone stands up, and we pick up again as the applause dies down. Anyone who wants to listen can, and anyone who wants to catch up does not have to raise their voice.



