There is a fair chance the songs at your wedding are the same ones that played in the back of the holiday car. The tapes your parents compiled are the repertoire two generations sing along to.
On a day like that one guest wants to catch up with family they have not seen for a year, while another wants to sit and listen quietly. Both should be possible. During the ceremony and dinner we therefore play softly: acoustic, with light amplification where needed, never over the conversation.



